“And we liked it,” she said, with a sharp look that dared me to argue.

She had taught me that attention is a form of love. And that what you give your attention to shapes who you become.

“Yeah. Like… my feed is designed to keep me scrolling. Every thumbnail is optimized. Every title is clickbait. The pacing is frantic because if you get bored for one second, you swipe away. But Mom’s stuff isn’t afraid of you leaving. It trusts you to stay.”

"We aren't passive consumers anymore," says Jenna Torres, a mother of two and host of the popular podcast Streaming While Snacking . "If a show has bad lighting, mumbly dialogue, or a plot that relies on people not just talking to each other, I eject. My time is too fractured to waste on mediocrity."

We have made progress, but the call for moms better entertainment content and popular media is not finished. The next frontiers include: